This post will not tell you how to control your anger.
I recently watched the movie 'Anger management'. The movie is one with a surprising climax. You get a message that is completely unexpected but the message is well worth it. Maybe the message was not so unexpected but I definitely couldn't smell it.
Our character Dave Buznik (Adam Sandler) is an extremely patient man but gets sentenced to anger management session due to no fault of his own. His instructor finds out that Dave is prone to passive anger. He tells a story about how a usually calm shopkeeper bears with all the scoldings of the customers patiently, never says a word, but one day, suddenly shoots everyone in the shop with a gun. This kind of anger is most dangerous. I also feel that it is imperative to burst out once in a while and should not try to contain your anger within yourself. First, one should try not to get angry at all. Try to be a monk. Or be the silly clown, you will not get easily offended. Try not to get angry as much as possible. If you get angry, I think there is no reason why you should eat all that negative energy. I feel you can speak out. Again, moderation is the word. Getting into a fist fight means a punch can land up in your face too or even worse, you might land yourselves in a case(cool... not in India. However, be careful).
Filling yourself with anger and not letting out can destroy your confidence, strain your relations and put you under obligations.
P.S: This article is not a free pass for people to get angry at me. I don't like people who get angry easily and for no reason.
P.P.S: Watch ' Anger management'
I recently watched the movie 'Anger management'. The movie is one with a surprising climax. You get a message that is completely unexpected but the message is well worth it. Maybe the message was not so unexpected but I definitely couldn't smell it.
Our character Dave Buznik (Adam Sandler) is an extremely patient man but gets sentenced to anger management session due to no fault of his own. His instructor finds out that Dave is prone to passive anger. He tells a story about how a usually calm shopkeeper bears with all the scoldings of the customers patiently, never says a word, but one day, suddenly shoots everyone in the shop with a gun. This kind of anger is most dangerous. I also feel that it is imperative to burst out once in a while and should not try to contain your anger within yourself. First, one should try not to get angry at all. Try to be a monk. Or be the silly clown, you will not get easily offended. Try not to get angry as much as possible. If you get angry, I think there is no reason why you should eat all that negative energy. I feel you can speak out. Again, moderation is the word. Getting into a fist fight means a punch can land up in your face too or even worse, you might land yourselves in a case(cool... not in India. However, be careful).
Filling yourself with anger and not letting out can destroy your confidence, strain your relations and put you under obligations.
P.S: This article is not a free pass for people to get angry at me. I don't like people who get angry easily and for no reason.
P.P.S: Watch ' Anger management'
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